Divorce & Relationship Recovery Coachinge

Confidential, culturally sensitive coaching to help you heal, reclaim your worth, and rise again.

My name is Shibero, your divorce and relationship coach, a trained clinical therapist, a family therapist, and a certified family mediator. I’ve been where you are, heartbroken, abandoned, and having to start over on my own. Instead of blaming others, I took a hard look at myself and decided I wasn’t going to stay stuck. I did the hard work to heal and rebuild my life. And for the past 15 years, I’ve helped others do the same, including running divorce care for my church.

I spent three years running DivorceCare in, have written several books on different aspects of separation and divorce, with the most popular books being ‘ An African Woman’s Story of Divorce in Kenya’, ‘ Parenting through the pain as a single parent; This is not love – a truth telling guide on how to break free from a narcissistic relationship; ‘ Cna you see me Mum, Can you see me Dad – voices of children whose parents are going through divorce;

DIVORCE COACHING

A Divorce Coach can be one of the best investments you make in the divorce process.

Many people rely on attorneys, financial advisors, business experts and other professionals to get through the complicated issues in divorce.

But getting a divorce is not just a legal process. It’s an emotional process as well. No matter your resilience, you are not immune to the heightened level of stress that comes with a divorce. It will inevitably impact your sleep, your ability to concentrate and your ability to accomplish even the smallest tasks.

Divorce coaching is a very proactive, solution-focused approach that is geared towards helping you navigate through the difficult hurdles you are likely to experience through the divorce process. Divorce coaching will help you make informed decisions that directly impact your future. Coaching is not therapy. While therapy focuses on feelings and understanding the past, coaching is more action-oriented in devising plans for problem-solving and moving forward.

Essentially, coaching can help you to assess where you are going, how you are going to get there, and how to handle stressful situations as they arise. Relying on your coach’s expertise will keep you on track with your divorce. Whether you’re in the early stages of separation, feeling stuck after heartbreak, or needing clarity in a toxic relationship, you are not alone. I offer soul-rooted, emotionally grounded coaching support for women and men navigating relationship pain, divorce recovery, and emotional rebuilding. My sessions are confidential, practical, and deeply human.

Understanding the Divorce Process in Kenya

Divorce can be a confusing process, especially since there is limited information available about it. But we are here to help you understand the process, saving you time, money, and the trauma of trying to find a needle in a haystack. It will differ depending on whether there are major issues with child custody, child or spousal support, property division and debt division. We have a full team that will help you handle all the different parts of the separation and divorce process. Our team has lawyers who are fully qualified, mainly divorce and separation Lawyers, Accountants for all matters concerning your finances, Real Estate consultants for land issues and Career coaches for career and new business startups. All are highly qualified and experienced professionals in divorce cases.

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About Relationship & Divorce Coaching

This is not a therapy session or a legal consultation. My coaching is for emotional wellness, clarity, empowerment, and healing. I walk with you to:

Reclaim your voice
Process emotional overwhelm
Navigate-specific relationship and divorce dynamics
Rebuild with grace and HOPE

How Sessions Are Delivered

Online (Zoom or WhatsApp Video) – Private, flexible, and accessible from anywhere.
Face-to-Face (in Kenya) – In a quiet, safe environment for a deeper personal connection.
Group Coaching (Coming Soon) – Small group circles for shared stories, support, and healing.
Retreat Options (By Invitation) – Deeper, immersive healing days held in nature.

While not all my clients are faith-based, I also offer optional spiritual support for those who desire it. This includes Christian, Scripture-rooted encouragement and insights for those seeking God-centered healing alongside emotional recovery. Whether you want a faith-based lens or a purely practical, emotional approach, you’ll be met with respect, warmth, and wisdom.

Coaching Packages

Explore the coaching support that best fits your journey. Sessions are available online or in person (in Kenya). All sessions are confidential and guided by lived wisdom, professional training, and culturally aware care.

1. Should I Stay or Go? (2 Sessions – 50 mins per session)
For those questioning their relationship.

Clarify confusion, fears, and emotional fog.
Build inner trust and map next steps.
Investment: KES 12,500
2. Breaking Free from Toxic Love (4 Sessions)
For survivors of narcissistic or emotionally abusive relationships.

Unpack the cycle of emotional abuse.
Rebuild identity, boundaries, and power.
Investment: KES 24,000
3. Emergency Anchor Session (1 session, 90 Minutes)
For emotional overwhelm, urgent clarity, or grounding.

One deep session to reset, breathe, and plan forward.
Investment: KES 8,500
4. Divorce Recovery & Healing Journey (8 Sessions)
For individuals navigating separation or divorce.

Covers anger, depression, polygamy, extended family dynamics, shame, identity rebuilding, and hope.
Culturally grounded and trauma-informed.
Investment: KES 45,000
5. Healing After Heartbreak (4 Sessions)
For those post-divorce but still grieving or stuck.

Validate grief, release shame, reclaim trust in self.
Investment: KES 24,000
6. Whole Again (8 Sessions)
For those ready to rebuild life after divorce.

Rediscover identity, redesign your life, reimagine purpose and love.
Investment: KES 45,000

How To Book Coaching Sessions

1. Make your F REE Zoom call here

This is a no-obligation call designed to help us get to know each other. It’s your chance to briefly share what you’re going through and explore whether I’m the right coach to support you. Depending on what you’re facing in your marriage or divorce journey, I may also suggest a different type of support or referral if needed. The goal is to ensure you feel safe, supported, and in the right space before taking the next step.

Calls are only on Wednesdays between 10:45 am and 2:00 pm

2. Select your package

Now that you’ve had your clarity call and are ready to begin, please choose the coaching package that best suits your needs and schedule. Whether you’re taking the first small step or committing to deeper healing, every option is designed to support you with care and intentionality

Coaching Packages & Payment

Please select your coaching package below. Each one is thoughtfully designed to meet you where you are, offering support, insight, and growth at every level of your journey:

Starter Clarity Session – KES 6,500
One breakthrough session to gain clarity and insight.
Reset & Refocus – KES 12,500
Two sessions to help you reset emotionally and begin to find your footing again.
Payment Option: Payable in full at booking.
Deepening the Journey – KES 24,000
Four sessions for deeper healing, self-discovery, and emotional grounding.
Payment Option: 2 instalments – KES 12,000 at booking, KES 12,000 before Session 3.
Transform & Thrive – KES 45,000
Eight sessions for a full, guided process of transformation, rebuilding, and thriving.
Payment Option: 3 instalments – KES 20,000 at booking, KES 15,000 before Session 3, KES 10,000 before Session 6.

All sessions must be completed within 3 months of the first session unless otherwise agreed in writing.

3. Make Your Payment

All sessions are pre-paid. Choose to pay in full or by instalment (as noted above for specific packages).

All sessions are pre-paid. Choose to pay in full or by instalment (as noted above for specific packages).

PAYMENT METHOD:

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Paybill Business Number: 600100
Account Number: 0100011891866